THE BIG IDEA: Explain what you tried, then ask for specific help.
1. Could I get your help with one part of this?
Specific and focused.
2. I’ve tried ___, but I’m stuck on ___ .
Shows effort.
3. Could you point me in the right direction?
Asks for guidance.
4. Can I get a second opinion on this?
Useful with peers.
5. Could you show me how you would approach this?
Good for learning.
Use the phrase for a real situation
You are stuck, but you have already made an effort. Explain what you tried and ask for one specific kind of help.
Prepare before the conversation
Before you speak, take a few seconds and use the Four Finger Rule:
- WANT TO: What do I want to accomplish?
- HAVE TO: What information do I have to give?
- NEED TO: What do I need from the other person?
- MIGHT: What could change, go wrong, or require clarification?
You do not need to memorize a full conversation. Prepare the situation, the first line, and one backup phrase.
Keep your English clear
Short sentences are often stronger at work because they reduce confusion. If you do not understand, ask. If you are unsure, confirm. If you make a mistake, focus on the solution.
Stop memorizing English. Start using it.
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Related lesson: How to ask what to do next at work.
